Being sexually abused makes you feel, dirty, ashamed, and guilty. DIRTY is the feeling that I could never really shake after a sexual interaction and today I still have to be very careful to only have sex with men I really like, other wise I will feel dirty. SHAME was etched so deep into my bones … Continue reading How shame, and guilt breed more of the same
All people need love and need to feel loved. This is especially true for children. Feeling loved is a basic human need. I was loved but I did not FEEL loved as a child therefore, this was a very hard time in my life. I would say this was the darkest time in my life. … Continue reading Childhood pain lasts a life time
Learning difficulties are very common for children who suffer abuse heres how abuse affected my ability to learn
When we are able to put our dark sides and what we aspire to together we can see that they act as guidance to where we can improve and the direction to take in life.
Looking back, my interactions with men have all been shaped by two founding relationships; firstly, being sexually abused for many years of my childhood and secondly, not being connected to my father.
A few months ago I underwent a deep healing that had a profound effect on me. Since then I have been blooming and blossoming into a new healed, whole, and balanced version of me. I’d like to share with you, my observations of what happened and how.